When your right is violated, the best solution in my opinion is to argue your case. Sometimes however, the case is hopeless. For example, when a student doesn’t like one of the course’s rules. Arguing to change that rule is just a waste of breath! Especially, if the instructor is strict. They justify their action to be protecting their rights but I don’t think its their right to design the course outline however they want. Of course that would be great but its not our right and therefore we can’t demand it. Some of my classmates are doing so and I think they’re just acting as brats! They still think they’re in school. I would really love telling them that but I wouldn’t wanna lose their friendship, for I highly appreciate the acquaintance of a couple of them.
This is me. If I thought that the word I’m gonna say is gonna hurt the person I’m talking to, even if its true, I prefer not to say it. Well, there are some exceptions of course =P. You can’t be nice and cautious all the time! Some people think it is brave to be frank and say what’s on your mind all the time but I think its rude! No one has any excuse to judge someone and laugh out loud about it in public. I know it takes a very strong will to stop yourself from judging others but taking it out to the public!!!! Hushhhhhhhh, keep it to yourself>> “الناس مب ناقصه ذنوب خاصةً في رمضان “
Oh, and about Ramadhan. There are many things that I wanna talk about regarding Ramadhan but I’m just gonna mention the thing that irritates me the most. Guys, guys, guys.. for god’s sake stop starring, not just because its حـــــــرام but also because its rude! I’ll tell you a funny incident. During the 1st week of Ramadhan I went to one of the shopping malls after finishing my classes, thought it would be empty – which it was in comparison with a normal day. Anyhow, on my way in i saw these 2 guys leaving the mall and I knew they were up to no good. You just know, its pretty clear. While walking forward, I was telling myself, “There’s noway they’re gonna hit on me. We’re in Ramadhan! They’ll be good I’m sure.” Just as I passed by them and was about to “أتنفس الصعداء ” as we say in arabic, one of’em said, “I just wish we weren’t in Ramadhan.” o_O
Honestly, what kinda behavior is that?! Its like he is confused, he doesn’t wanna behave badly but won’t let himself do good either. For those, however, who are doing a good job, please keep it that way.
Anyways, at the end I wanna say: تقبل الله منا ومنكم صالح الأعمال
والسموحة إذا غلطت على حد